Few of us have been spared the agonies of intimate relationships. They come in many shapes: loving a man or a woman who will not commit to us, being heartbroken when we're abandoned by a lover, engaging in Sisyphean internet searches, coming back lonely from bars, parties, or blind dates, feeling bored in a relationship that is so much less than we had envisaged - these ar...(展开全部)

伊娃•易洛斯（Eva Illouz）， 社会学家， 希伯来大学理性研究中心研究员。著作有《冷亲密》，《资本主义的爱与文化碰撞》，《痛苦的魅力》等， 其中《痛苦的魅力》获美国社会学联盟最佳图书奖。

Contending that some women are "too nice," comedian and radio show host Sherry Argov has written Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. "I'm not recommending that a woman have an abrasive disposition," Argov writes, "The woman I'm describing is kind yet strong. She doesn't give up her life, and she won't chase a man...(展开全部)

Did you ever wonder why cheap wine tastes better in fancy glasses? Why sales of Macintosh computers soared when Apple introduced the colorful iMac? New research on emotion and cognition has shown that attractive things really do work better, as Donald Norman amply demonstrates in this fascinating book, which has garnered acclaim everywhere from Scientific American to The New...(展开全部)

Did you ever wonder why cheap wine tastes better in fancy glasses? Why sales of Macintosh computers soared when Apple introduced the colorful iMac? New research on emotion and cognition has shown that attractive things really do work better, as Donald Norman amply demonstrates in this fascinating book, which has garnered acclaim everywhere from Scientific American to The New...(展开全部)

哈丽特·勒纳博士（Harriet Lerner, PhD） 美国备受尊敬的关系专家和女性心理学家，她以女性心理与家庭关系方面的研究见长，拥有梅宁格诊所30余年心理治疗和家庭治疗经验。 勒纳博士著有十几部畅销书，作品累计销量逾300万册，并被译成30多种语言，其中包括畅销30余年的经典著作《愤怒之舞》。她帮助数百万的读者找到自我，赋予女性重塑生活的建设性力量。 勒纳博士经典作品 《愤怒之舞：亲密关系中情绪表达的艺术》 《沟通之舞：亲密关系中的语言艺术》 《关系之舞：既亲密又独立的相处艺术》 《真相之舞：如何在亲密关系中做真实的自己》 《生命中的不速之客：超越恐惧、焦虑和羞耻感，活出自在人生》 《妈妈的意义：孩子如何影响你的一生》 《你为什么不道歉》

哈丽特·勒纳博士（Harriet Lerner, PhD） 美国备受尊敬的关系专家和女性心理学家，她以女性心理与家庭关系方面的研究见长，拥有梅宁格诊所30余年心理治疗和家庭治疗经验。 勒纳博士著有十几部畅销书，作品累计销量逾300万册，并被译成30多种语言，其中包括畅销30余年的经典著作《愤怒之舞》。她帮助数百万的读者找到自我，赋予女性重塑生活的建设性力量。 勒纳博士经典作品 《愤怒之舞：亲密关系中情绪表达的艺术》 《沟通之舞：亲密关系中的语言艺术》 《关系之舞：既亲密又独立的相处艺术》 《真相之舞：如何在亲密关系中做真实的自己》 《生命中的不速之客：超越恐惧、焦虑和羞耻感，活出自在人生》 《妈妈的意义：孩子如何影响你的一生》 《你为什么不道歉》

Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw lo...(展开全部)

Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw lo...(展开全部)

Is it impossible to let go -- despite the pain? - Do you yearn for someone who is not physically or emotionally available to you?- Do you believe that if you love him enough he will have to love you?- When you feel insecure, does it drive you only to want her more?- Do you find yourself phoning repeatedly or waiting long hours for the phone to ring? Do you wish someone would le...(展开全部)